Finding out about an unplanned pregnancy can naturally cause worry about sharing the news. It’s important to know that you have full autonomy over your decisions.
Legally, you’re not obligated to tell your partner about the pregnancy or what you’re considering doing.
Additionally, you’re not alone in this. Choose Hope Women’s Center is here to support you in a confidential setting. We offer free pregnancy services and give you a space to discuss your choices with our understanding team.
Deciding Not To Tell Your Partner
You might have different reasons for not wanting to share this with your partner, and whatever your reason may be, it’s essential to recognize that your feelings are valid.
If your partner is abusive or shows signs of being violent, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE. You deserve better.
Getting out of that situation can be difficult, but it will be the best thing you ever do. If you’re in immediate danger, dial 9-1-1.
Even without the presence of violence, it’s entirely justified to put your mental health first, particularly if sharing this information might lead to increased anxiety or emotional turmoil.
Reasons To Share The News
You’re not obligated to tell your partner about considering an abortion; the decision to share rests with you. Yet, there are compelling reasons to consider opening up.
Your partner might initially react with surprise or worry, but discussing it could open up avenues for both emotional and practical support, especially within a supportive relationship.
Consider how you would feel in their position. Knowing can be pivotal for the health of a relationship, and going through such experiences together might even strengthen your connection.
A frank discussion could also uncover other paths, like adoption or deciding to parent if your partner is open to the idea of the pregnancy.
While this conversation might not lead to an immediate decision, it’s important to remember that the final say on what to do about your pregnancy is yours.
You Are Not Alone
No matter what you decide to do, you don’t have to do this alone. Choose Hope Women’s Center is here to walk with you every step of the way.
We offer free pregnancy services to get you the care you need during this critical time in your life. Or maybe you just need someone to talk to.
In any case, reach out to us to get a free and confidential appointment today.